Send me your dilemma.

Sometimes the hardest part is knowing where to begin. Whether you’re celebrating something wonderful, carrying something heavy, or simply looking for another perspective, I’d be honored to hear from you.

Dear Abi.

Years ago, newspapers had a little advice column called “Dear Abby.” People wrote in with questions, heartbreaks, celebrations, impossible decisions, and everyday dilemmas. Abby would write back.

I did my own version a few years ago, and I’m not sure why I stopped, because it was one of my favorite things I’ve ever done. So… I’m bringing it back.

I don’t pretend to have all the answers, but I can be a friend. And when the moment calls for it, I can invite this incredible community to help too. Trust me—we show up for our own. #AyresForce

Some letters will stay private. Others may become future Dear Abi posts (always anonymously unless you tell me otherwise), because one of the greatest gifts we can give each other is the reminder that we’re not the only ones carrying hard things.

Wherever you are, whatever you’re carrying…
You’re not alone.